Note: I wrote this a couple weeks ago. Enjoy!
Today I went to buy some sandals for my kids now that summer-ish weather is
upon us. So with coupon in hand (thanks JC Penney!) we headed to the mall. My
kids always love riding the escalator up and down, up and down. After one of
our ventures down, I caught them as they started to play on the arm part that
comes out of the floor, as many kids do. And so as many moms do, I quickly told
them to stop and jump back, playing on escalators can get us hurt. Then I
followed up my warning with a story. I told them how my cousin, several years
older than me, had played on the escalators when he was a little boy, and got
his arm stuck and got really hurt.
Instantly I had my kids’ attention. They were asking all sorts of
questions...what happened? How did he get hurt? Did he have to go to the
hospital? It's not that I wanted to frighten my children, it's just I wanted to
let the simple thing I was teaching them sink in a little deeper. This
particular story even brings back memories for me, because it's the same story
my mom told me as a young girl to keep me from playing on the escalators.
I have used stories in so many ways as a mother. I have used them to
illustrate a principle. I have used stories from my own childhood to humanize
me for my kids, to help them know that I have been where they've been and felt
what they're feeling. I've used stories just to lighten the situation and make
them laugh.
Stories can be such powerful things. They can evoke feelings and bring back
memories. I have felt happiness, or anger, or excitement, or peace...all when
simply reading a story. I have learned something new, or remembered something I
almost forgot...all when reading a story. I have felt connected to my ancestors
through the reading of stories, and connected to my future posterity with the
writing of stories. Even the leaders of my church often use stories when
instructing and guiding church members. (You can read and listen to some of
those stories from my church's past General Conference here.)
I love the power that a story can have. I like to tell stories, and write
stories, and see the emotions a well-told story can bring to other people. This
blog is a place for me to share my stories. Thanks for reading along. :)
1 comment:
Love this, Melissa! Thank you for sharing!
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